7 Reasons Why You Do Not Have Real Friends And How To Overcome Them

Well since fake is the new real, we need to emphasize on the fact that if you want people to be real to you part of the effort depends on how you treat and literally embrace them.

There are couple of reasons why you may not have any real friends, though you desperately seek for one and constantly lose the ones you have. Retracing your steps and knowing why your friends leave you is one step to mending such broken relationships.

According to recent personal research , here are some reasons you do not have real friends:

1. People don't trust you: like what the hell?? You are very deceitful,  you say a lot stuffs you don't mean and you are Known for betraying the trust of your former pals, how the hell do you expect to have a real friend??

2. You expect too much from your friends :  This is really wrong you expect your friends to do what you can't do for yourself and end up disappointed when they don't meet up to your expectations, well everyone have a cross to carry so don't be too dependent on making people carry yours, they will avoid you.

3. You often abandon your friends when things get better for you: OH so you feel they are fools and dummies right? When you are broke and unhappy you want to be around them and share the cross but the moment you see a Greenland you fling the friendship away like it does not worth a dime. Well that's why they are not your real friends.

4. You turn down friends invitation to spend time with them: I am not a social person yet you can spend your whole day chatting up strangers online, I can't come see you yet you travel to meet a stranger you met online, well if you don't turn up for people around they will reciprocally not turn up for you. Company strengthens friendship, spend time with your pals and build a relationship together.

5. You enjoy whinning and nagging, ahhhhh please stop,  we know misery loves company but we don't want all that negative energy around us every time, life is not a bed of roses the more you count your blessings the more stronger you become and attract people to you.

6. You keep scores:hey I bought you a pencil 5years ago, can you remember how I bought you lunch when you had nothing?  etc that's just immature, do good and forget you did it.  The moment you start mentioning the little things you do for me, well am not gonna steadily stay around you so I don't hear it and you don't get the chance to do me for favors.

7. You Are a Trust Betrayer :there is nothing more painful than your trust being Betrayed by someone you opened up to,  I tell you things I don't want others to know and then you start talking about it like it is sweet to make me look bad. No we can't be friends cause trust is the foundation of friendship.......... I DON'T TRUST YOU.

So friends those are the basic virtues you should work on,  so you can start making real and loyal friends.