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Technically they may not be ashawos, but they still have a ashawo's mind set. Essentially, they ashawo themselves to their boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them. This has led to the coinage of the term 'retired pros titpros titution' to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for s*x.
So here are some signs you must observe:-
1. She's obsessed about money and excessively materialistic:
The classic ashawo mind set: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be sed uced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her l egs and give her gina tingles faster than any other thing.
2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you s*x:
This type of girls are so cunning in their dealing, when they first starts a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great s*x(they are very good in b ed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less. When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in b ed ( that period you starts behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually she reduce the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). s*x now becomes a reward in the relationship.
3. She frequently uses the word Ashawo, slut and w***e to describe her friends or women she doesn't like:
If you have been to a brothel and observe where ashawos quarrel or fight, one word you always hear them call themselves is "Ashawo" . This is because what they does in their life relives in their mind. She's simply projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others.
4 . She openly tells you she doesn't trust her friends around you , but still doesn't want to leave them:
Birds of same feathers flies together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends she will be like "go get your own maga Dam".
5. She boasts and prides herself of her s exual skills and how men are attracted to her and also she is openly jealous of beautiful women:
She knew that the only thing she is good at is s*x, and she will always brag about it , like how all her ex are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough you will also notice her envy against younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.
