Remember Wale posted this Meme preaching to ladies to stop the butt enhancement, turns out the model in the meme is actually an Instagram celeb, she actually replied Wale but I'm not here for that, I'm actually amazed how enormous her behind is, her behind is so big, she has probably had like one million silicone injection. BTW she's a stripper and a club hosting model
I am 26 years old, a lawyer, born in the UK, a great cook, I'm a church girl also in the choir, my skin is my original skin tone, team braids or natural hair, no Brazilian hair or extra eye lashes, I don't drink/smoke weed. I know my worth and I'm fun to be with but I'm still single. It's very annoying because I have all the qualities that a good wife should possess, but I don't meet or attract serious minded guys. All the guys I meet are full of deceit, very childish, they lie they are single, always at the club every Friday, some still sag their pants in 2015?, some borrow money & cars just to impress, sharing apartments with friends. The painful part is that few good guys who are single and I like are always after the so called "IG big girls", with bleached skin, Brazilian hair to their knees, red lips all day, posting ass pictures on their pages and tweeting, always in a beach house on week days, post private jet pictures but they don't have private jet money. My question and curiosity is why would a man skip a good girl like me and go for these girls who are clearly not willing to settle down or don't believe or understand what love is? Do I need to throw away my values and lifestyle? Or do I start posting ass pics on IG for men to take me seriously.
Secondly, married men also come at me so hard and desperately they say their wives bore them and they only married because of family pressure, their wives ain't good in bed. All these things just make me wonder if marriage/relationships are for me and if they are worth giving a shot.
My friends who are married discourage me from getting married, they say it's a living hell so many stories of how their husbands don't eat their food, they find used condoms in his car, always having emergency meetings at night, and how the sex life is horrible or nothing. How will I love myself when being myself isn't getting me far? Relationship wise I mean.
I am curious to know if it's only me going through this.
Oral sex can simply be defined as sexual activity in which the genitals of one partner are stimulated by the mouth of the other; fellatio or cunnilingus.
The threat of oral sex is taking an alarming dimension. Findings have revealed that youth and young couples indulge in this sordid act. Giving oral sex to a man (blow job) has been proven to be risky. The dreaded HIV aides could be transmitted through oral sex.
Scientists believe it could cause cervical cancer, and the pervasive but often silent Human Papillonia Virus (HPV) has been finding its way into women's mouth.
ENCOMIUM Weekly spoke with some doctors who were against the practice of oral sex as it is a means of contacting deadly diseases. Although the HPV itself is not actually cancerous, it can only affect cells causing abnormal tissue growth in the mouth, the lips, the tongue, inside of the cheeks and the throat.
According to experts, detecting the disease in its early stage can increase survival chances by 90 percent. Knowing how to spot the symptoms, the virus occurs more in the genital area, if not taken care of can cause cervical cancer.
The HPV is very prevalent in Nigeria and instances of cancer are rising. The important thing is that HPV does not lead to HIV as they are two different viruses that affect different parts of the body.
According to a study published by Nigerian Medical Journal in 2015, there is a strong need to raise awareness about the dangers of HPV and the vaccinations that can prevent it. If Nigerians are ignoring the most common type of cancer created by HPV, then mouth cancer is going to be even deadlier.
In a chat with Dr Iyke, who agreed that the HPV virus exists, he advised against the practice of oral sex. It is not medically healthy. HPV is mostly gotten amongst sexually active people. When the virus is gotten, it has a time line, especially for women depending on the person's age. As a woman, to confirm if the virus is there and mostly found in the genital area, the person will have to undergo a screening called Papanicolar Screen (PAPScreen). If the virus is fully grown and the oraficial structures have been damaged, it shows through Ebora cancer.
The virus is not only gotten through oral sex but through anal and genital sex. The Human Papilloma Virus affects the skin exposed to moisture, such as the mouth, rectum, cervix and throat.
HOW ORAL SEX CAN KILL
One thing PHV shares with HIV is that the carrier usually has no idea he has the virus. The carrier develops the virus and passes it during the exchange of bodily fluids with someone else. The recipient is the one who runs the risk of contracting whatever disease the virus creates.
Which means, the person giving oral sex is at risk of getting the HPV virus from the person she is pleasuring and then the virus could trigger cancerous cell growth in the recipient.
However, the rise in the number of throat and mouth cancer due to oral sex cannot be ignored as the virus is hard to detect and can move quickly once it is passed to someone.
Nigerians have to put more emphasis on being vaccinated against HPV and diminishing the possibilities of contacting any kind of disease from oral sex. HPV virus can be reduced through protection during oral sex which is now preferred among couples.
The rise of the virus in Nigeria can be frustrating to hear. Oral sex is no longer a safe alternative to intercourse, except with proper precaution.
Staying sober is a real struggle for alcoholics, and the protagonist of this sad story is no exception than 30-year-old Zhang Rui who had been trying to kick the habit for a while, but when all his attempts failed, both he and his family got desperate. After what must have been a serious intervention, he agreed to let his mother chain him by the neck in a room, to prevent him from buying or stealing booze.
Zhang, who is still locked in his attic room in Bengbu, east China, told reporters that he couldn't think of any other way to stop himself from harming others or drinking himself to death. Despite his poor living conditions, Zhang believes that confining himself is the only way to beat the addiction that has ruined his life. In fact, he wants to stay chained up and locked in there for at least six months, until he no longer feels the need to consume alcohol.
The tiny 10-square-meter space is sparsely furnished, with only a mattress for sleeping, a laptop and a small TV to keep him entertained. He doesn't even have a toilet – just a bucket and a large bottle of water to keep himself clean. The chain around his neck is four meters long and weighs about 22 lbs, so he can hardly stand up on his own in his current state. It allows him to walk around the room as exercise, but not much else.
Residents of Atele Street in the Anibaba community, Ikorodu, Lagos State on Tuesday woke up to find two naked dead women, who were dumped by the roadside.
PUNCH Metro learnt that the women, whose identities had yet to be known, also had their breasts cut off, while their private parts were removed.
The shocked residents tried in vain to locate the families of the deceased women.
According to them, the incident was the second time in two weeks that mutilated bodies of women
would be found in the area.
Just last Monday, six women were found dead in a canal in the area on Saturday, December 5.
It had been reported that their decomposing corpses were thereafter removed by officials of the Lagos State Environmental Health Monitoring Unit, and deposited in a morgue in Yaba.
The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Joe Offor, had told PUNCH Metro that the relatives of the women had yet to show up, adding that the police were investigating the cause of the women's death.
Now again, on Tuesday, two women were found by the roadside, stripped naked and mutilated.
It was gathered that some of the residents reported the matter at the Ikorodu Police Division and to the Rapid Response Squad.
Officials of SEHMU were said to have been invited to the area again to attend to the corpses.
Speaking with PUNCH Metro, a resident, who gave her name only as Iyiola, said the faces of the deceased were not familiar to any of the residents.
She said:
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> "The spot where we found these women on Tuesday is just some distance away from the canal. The bodies were dumped behind a house on the street.
> "Just last week, six women were picked from a canal in this area. The bodies were found after a foul smell pervaded our area. On Tuesday, we were shocked to find two fresh corpses. We strongly suspect that the women were killed by ritual killers.
> "The bodies were stripped naked, while their breasts and private parts had been cut off. When are we going to stop seeing dead bodies?"
Another resident, who identified herself as Iya Sarah, said:
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> "The police and the community development association must do something about these killings. There is obviously a serial killer in the community. One of the corpses found was that of a lady, who was stripped of everything."
PUNCH learnt that some residents had written letters to the Inspector-General of Police, Solomon Arase, the state Commissioner of Police, Fatai Owoseni, and the National Human Rights Commission in Abuja to investigate the spate of killings in the area.
The police spokesperson, Offor, could not yet be reached for comment, as his phone rang out.
However, the Public Relations Officer, Lagos State Ministry of Heath, Mrs. Adeola Salako, confirmed to their correspondent that the SEHMU officials found two new corpses of women in the area on Tuesday.
"You are right about the two new corpses," she said in a text message.
Ladies Please tell us what comes to your mind first when you see this work or art
So I saw this photo of a mannequin floating around on the net and i was almost blinded. Lol
Since Big Buttocks is the new thing, a lot of women have lost their life and normal self in the verge for this social mentality
Well to be on a safer side,
This is a butt enlargement procedure that actually works without surgery. It's kind of amazing how far some people will go to achieve a shapely backside.
the suction treatment breaks down fat and cellulite, eliminates toxins, and restores the skin's natural elasticity. It also works to "soften skin for those with butt shots." They're also supposedly permanent.
The 45-minute treatment costs $60, and about four to six sessions are needed for ultimate bootylicious satisfaction. The non-invasive procedure, she says, leads to a permanently more pronounced posterior, because it 'mobilizes the fat into the right place.
So if you want some big booty this christmas, you know what to do. lol
I didn't see this coming, just when I thought of him as a history maker
Reports have it that the castaway, Salvador Alvarenga, 36, who survived 15 months at sea by drinking urine and turtle blood has been sued for $1m for 'eating his colleague'.
The man who is being sued by the family of the colleague claimed that Alvarenga, ate crewmate Ezequiel Cordoba, 22, and want £650,000 from him.
Salvador Alvarenga, 36, paid Ezequiel Cordoba, 22, $50 to accompany him on a two-day fishing trip off the coast of Mexico in November 2012.
After a vicious storm pushed the boat out to sea, the pair survived by catching fish and birds, and drinking turtle blood and urine.
The boat landed on the Marshall Islands where he described how he ate birds and fish he managed to catch by hand.
Mr Cordoba eventually died after making Mr Alvarenga promise not to eat his corpse and to find his mother and tell her what happened. Alvarenga kept the rotting corpse on the boat for six days for company, until he realised he had lost his grip on reality and threw it overboard.
However, Mr Cordoba's family say they think he was a victim of cannibalism.
According to Metro.co.uk, Mr Alvarenga, who has just published a book about his ordeal, has insisted he did not eat his shipmate.
His lawyer Ricardo Cucalon, told El Salvador's El Diario de Hoy newspaper: 'I believe that this demand is part of the pressure from this family to divide the proceeds of royalties.
'Many believe the book is making my client a rich man, but what he will earn is much less than people think.
Used to have problem doing this in the past and I know I can't be the only one,
We have two tutorials in this piece
The first tutorial is How to take screenshot of the full computer screen (Windows)
Press prt sc keyboard, usually found around the upper right hand corner of your keyboard (For most keyboards)
OR Press Windows button + prt sc (For some keyboards)
OR Press fn + prt sc (For some keyboards)
OR Press ctrl + prt sc (For some keyboards)
And after that, open paint application and press ctr + V to paste and then press ctrl + S to save.
The second tutorial is How to take screenshot of part of the computer screen (Windows)
1. Got to Start or click on the windows key and type "Snipping tool", the open the application by double clicking or pressing the enter
2. Click on the New or click on the arrow beside the new which is used for selection the option you want for the screenshot
3. Clock and Drag your cursor to cover the part or area you want to take the screenshot
4. Then Click on the save button.
Source: http://blog.windrey.com/how-to-take-screenshots-on-your-computer-screen/
Hmm some churches are really making church look like a business venture, enekem.com readers is this right?
Some of us really don't know how to be fun and responsible at the same time yet we complain about not being able to get girls, will just like pacman, there is a method of doing things successfully and for killing your chats with a lady, these are 5 of them
1. Words like "Hi" / "Hey" / "What's up?"
Come on dude, yea it's OK to say hi, but if that's all you've got, you'll bore her. All you're saying is that you'd like to flirt, but you don't really know how, and you're expecting her to do all the work.
Boring.
If you really are out of ideas for what to text her, imagine that you already asked how she's doing, and she said: "I'm awesome! What's new and exciting with you?" Now start the conversation.
2. Sentences like "Are you there?" / "Are you ignoring me?" / "Umm, hello?"
You sound tasty,
Don't be passive-aggressive or needy.
If she didn't answer your last text, pretend you never sent it. Wait one day, then text again. If you get crickets, wait two days, text again, and so on.
If she doesn't respond after a week or two, then her number has "gone cold." Wait a few weeks, then go with something out of left field. I like "I just met your twin," but there are a million others.
3. Using unnecessary Smiley happy unicorns!
I can't even take you serious when you do this,
Use a 
Winks can make normal texts feel creepy. Many women will feel a difference between "let's hang out" vs. "let's hang out ;)" It's OK to be playful and/or sexual. Women often are more comfortable starting to be sexual through text rather than in person. But be sexual on purpose, not because you accidentally used too many winks.
4. Chatspeak like "C U L8R ROFLMAO"aii,.....
Well it used to be Cool but don't forget that
Chatspeak was invented when everyone had crappy phones that had to cycle through letters to get to the one you wanted. You don't still use your crappy phone from 10 years ago, do you? Then why text like you do?
A stray "u" instead of "you" shouldn't kill your chances, but you're not tweeting, so write normally. There's no girl in the world who'll think "I'm so attracted to this guy because he's so efficient with character length in text."
5. Nonsensical long ass texts "FJHRFHFGOHFOOIFJFOIWPSDLDKRV#BVBVOR#FI"
A long-ass text from a guy she doesn't know well just looks like gibberish to most women. She doesn't need to hear your life story spread over five texts. She'll also wonder why you're trying so hard.
A long text that goes a bit over into a second message is fine. But don't send anything longer than two texts, and only do that if she's writing you long ones back.
Wish you luck, See more tips in our article and lifestyle bar at the top of the page.
He loves rap and Barack Obama is arguably this country's most personable
president of all time.
He further proved that in a recent
interview with People Magazine, where he revealed his
favorite song, book, movie, and TV show of 2015.
President Obama says that his favorite song of 2015 is
"How Much A Dollar Cost" by Kendrick Lamar, while
Michelle Obama's favorite song is Mark Ronson and
Bruno Mars' "Uptown Funk". He also enjoyed The
Martian, Lauren Groff's Fates and Furies, and
CineMax's The Knick this year,
This is just a landmark of what future generations will adhere to
You will see kids proudly cling themselves sluts with no shame
The search for true self,
Terrence Jenkins announced yesterday that he'll be leaving the show after almost three years as co-anchor to focus on acting and producing full-time.He said Tuesday on E! News.
"I started hosting when I was 16 years old back in North Carolina, and I've been now on national television for over 10 years,""Seventeen years, that's a long time, and I think in order for someone to grow it's important that you try new things and you create new challenges, create new dreams for yourself.
I took some time off this summer and I produced and I starred in my first feature film, and I'm really excited about it and it's coming out at the top of the year. It's called The Perfect Match. I knew I would have to leave to go on a promo run for that...I've had a lot of opportunities come in in the acting space, both behind the camera and in front of the camera. And so, with all of that said, I wanted to announce today that I'll be leaving E! News.
Well as a famous and successful person you must learn to manage all types of hate and criticism,
Arch's career started out with his father Glen sharing a few videos of him on the decks on Facebook and through social media he became an instant hit.
Arch has since entered SA's Got Talent and over the past month the young man walked away with the R500 000 prize money and products from Avon and Celltone worth R35 000.
Like always, the world will always question ones achievements and social media was quick to claim that Arch had cheated on the final episode of the show by saying that his audio cables were not connected to the mixing deck. In addition to that some people made accusations that he was playing a pre-recorded mix on the show.
Destiny magazine shares that e.TV publicist Michael Pocock has rubbished all the claims and assures audiences that Arch's talent is legitimate. "The photo that has been making the rounds on social media does not show the full technical setup of DJ Arch's performance, which took place at Soweto Theatre on the 8th of November 2015 in the finale of SA's Got Talent," he said also adding that the audio cables were connected via the laptop and not the controller.
"There were two laptops on the stage, which DJ Arch Jnr was consistently watching. The one laptop has the DJ software on it, which plays the songs, and the other laptop has a countdown system which cues DJ Arch Jnr. The controller in front of him has a black USB cable connected to the laptop, which is feeding into it," he says.
Credit; OakTv
Staying sober is a real struggle for alcoholics, and the protagonist of this sad story is no exception than 30-year-old Zhang Rui who had been trying to kick the habit for a while, but when all his attempts failed, both he and his family got desperate. After what must have been a serious intervention, he agreed to let his mother chain him by the neck in a room, to prevent him from buying or stealing booze.
Zhang, who is still locked in his attic room in Bengbu, east China, told reporters that he couldn't think of any other way to stop himself from harming others or drinking himself to death. Despite his poor living conditions, Zhang believes that confining himself is the only way to beat the addiction that has ruined his life. In fact, he wants to stay chained up and locked in there for at least six months, until he no longer feels the need to consume alcohol.
The tiny 10-square-meter space is sparsely furnished, with only a mattress for sleeping, a laptop and a small TV to keep him entertained. He doesn't even have a toilet – just a bucket and a large bottle of water to keep himself clean. The chain around his neck is four meters long and weighs about 22 lbs, so he can hardly stand up on his own in his current state. It allows him to walk around the room as exercise, but not much else.
ccording to the reporters who visited him, Zhang used to be a kind and gentle person working as a truck driver, however, all that changed six months ago when he started drinking. He turned so violent and abusive that he lost both his job and his wife and children. Things got so bad at one point that he begged for money on the streets just to be able to buy cheap rice wine. Once drunk, he reportedly had no controls over his actions.
When his family left him, Zhang was devastated, and the misery drove him to the extreme decision of home imprisonment. Quitting cold turkey has been torturous for him, so much so that he cries all the time and beats himself up with the chains. He becomes very irritable at times and tries to pick the lock or slide the chain off his neck. So far he has only managed to hurt himself even more.
Zhang hasn't had an easy life – he lost his father at an early age and he was brought up by his mother in poverty. it is believed that this rough upbringing eventually led him to alcohol addiction.
Zhang's mother is obviously heartbroken with his current situation, but she doesn't plan on unlocking the chain until she is sure he has beaten alcohol addiction. She doesn't know how long he will stay locked up in the attic, but she is convinced it is the only way to get her old son back.
This has to be the most extreme case of self-imposed rehab since the guy who built a metal cage for his head in order to stop smoking.
Photos: NetEase
Sources: Shanghaiist, Daily Mail
credits: Lukesh Photography
This is nice,
Immediate past governor of Lagos state and current Minister of Power, Works & Housing, Babatunde Raji Fashola (SAN) was a proud father today as his son, Demola, got called to the Nigerian bar.
Demola Fashola in his wig and gown is flanked by his father Babatunde Fahola and HRM Oba Akiolu of Lagos on his left side and his mum Emmanuella Abimbola Fashola on the right.
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