Ladies Be Wise!! Sex Is Not The Answer (must Read)

Sex has turned many ladies into a mystery of thinking what they feel for a particular guy is true love.
You meet a guy, he takes you out; He had a great sex with you, it was like heaven to you. He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him so much, you start assuming both of you are meant to be together as husband & wife just because of what you call good sex.
You start dreaming of your future with him while he's just having fun. Your feelings for him has blindfolded you from seeing things from the reality point of view. You find yourself infatuated with him just because you don't want to feel used & dumped.

Sometimes, you need to sit down & ask yourself; What do i really love about this guy?
Do I see Christ in him?
Is he a guy I can boldly take to my pastor?
Can I introduce him as my husband to people who are responsible?
You know the guy is not capable of being a good husband & father; yet you want to kill yourself because of him.
But sometimes you need to differentiate between what you just feel and what you really deserve.
Don't start dreaming of your future with a guy who is just catching his fun.
Don't attach a permanent feeling to a temporal person.
Don't open your legs for a man who has not paid your bride price.
Don't open up your heart to a guy who doesn't open his bible.

Stop chasing after a guy who doesn't chase after God.

My dear! #‎ladies_please_be_wise‬.
There will be enough time to engage in sex after you are married.
Don't make yourself cheap!
Men generally don't have respect for ladies who so easily give in to sex request. I speak as a man that i am here.
They may pretend to value you, but in their hearts, men don't really hold such ladies in high esteem.
Be Wise!



Writer : Shevo Umweni