THIS IS WHAT LOVE REALLY IS (Read)

Its funny where we find the real meaning of complicated and controversial things in the world, for example LOVE!!
That's the most overused word in the world , and a lot of people say it without knowing the meaning of what love really is ,
You start to talk about love and people start using the word 'ALWAYS' especially the ladies they go like, "he will always always be there for me", he will always always love me no matter what, our love will always always survive the hard times, etc , but you know what? Let me tell you a hell truth
When we talk about love the word always doesn't really exist , always is the key to every woman's heartbreak
I just heard your mind ask me WHY?? How do you mean ??
Here is the answer

Rachel Speaks """** Because we expect that he will always be there, we expect that we will always be loved no matter what we do or what we look like, well that is clearly not the case now is it, because we get fat and we get old, we get traded in for younger models every day. So the simple truth is the only always is that everything changes. And in my experience men's whims are the most changeable of all,
so No, I guess is the answer to your question is no I do not want some guy to tell me that he is Always gonna be there to protect me from the scary noises at night because then I'm gonna know he's a liar. I can protect myself just fine thank you very much. *** (Rachel fades)

People are in relationships of Delusion , They know they aint never gonna be Mr/Mrs Right, they're just happy being Mr/Mrs Right Now.
And that's a major setback , you are everywhere together like Romeo N Juliet for some Faint reasons , maybe she is with him cause her is Rich , He is with The Lady cause she is good in bed,smokes or got some nice Tattoos you know those things juvenile hearts normally crave for , but in your heart of hearts , you always remind yourself , my children deserve a better husband, my wife can't be an alcoholic etc , Then what exactly LoVE??
Some people think love is an emotion that must be reciprocated , their idea of true LoVe is that their lover must in reciprocate all the love that they have given to their lover , well to me that's just a Love business , cause just like a failed business if the returns doesn't come way back , the lover always leave for someone else , that's when you hears stuffs like ' I loved you but you took me for granted that's why I left you ....... Let's not talk about horse shits

Some define LoVe as SEX , yea those people that believe that the only way that they can show that they love is by having sex with you , yuck
Katherine Speaks *** It's not about the sex sweetie, anyone can have sex, it's about the walk up the stairs***
What About BREAk Up And HeartBreak??
Ken Speaks*** Women don't make a move until they're ready. They can be with a guy for two years and spend the last 6 months trying to get over the guy so that when they're ready to move on, they just move on. Guys are totally different, when they break up they do if fast, but they can spend years trying to get over the girl because usually they don't think it through**

Do you know what love really is, Tom?

Love is a one way street, going from you out. And you give it because it makes you feel good to give it.
Because when you give it, it makes you strong. And that crazy, vulnerable, out of control scary feeling, feeling that most people think is love? It's not really love at all; it's just the need to be loved.
And believe me, its a really different thing. Real love isn't "I love you" hoping the other person is going to say it too. It's just, I love you. Its like giving someone a gift at Christmas, and if you get anything back, that's a bonus, that's extra.
But you shouldn't NEED to receive it, cause the true strength is in the giving of it. But then again, that's just what I think. And what do I know? I don't know anything.

So Now That you Know What Love Really Is, How should you to react when someone you really love is trying to breakup with you after a 3year relationship??
Be sincere and tell them to their face
Tom Speaks ** I know you got a lot on your mind. I know you got a lot of things to figure out. And, uh, up until very recently I thought I needed you here. With me in my life to feel the way I feel about you. But just all of a sudden I just suddenly realized I don't. I mean, I want us to be together and everything. But I just realized I don't need you here with me in order for me to love you.
Cause I'm always gonna love you. And if you were to leave right now and go to China for 6 months, I'm still gonna love you. And if you gain 50lbs, I'm still gonna love you. And, you know what, if after the moment I never see you again, I'm still gonna love you. And if you don't feel that way about me,
I know it's gotta be tough on ya, 'cause, it's been hell on me as it is. And I know that your the greatest thing that ever was. And I'm just lucky to have spent the last three years of my life with you.

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Credit : What Love Is [Movie]