LADIES!! DO YOU USE SOAP TO CLEAN YOUR VAGINA?

Recently, my sister visited the gynecologist for the first time. And everything was looking pretty good down there. Thank God. The doctor even complimented my sister on her relaxation skills.

But when the gyno noticed that my sister had applied powder down there, in preparation for her vagina being bared for a virtual stranger to see, she frowned before issuing a warning.

She held her hand up in a 'stop' motion and said, "And don't put powder down there. It's not natural."

My sister conceded that point. She could do without powder. And then the doctor hit her with another zinger.

"You really shouldn't be putting anything down there but water."

"Not even soap?" My sister asked, assuming she'd made an oversight.

"Just water."

"Well, I sweat a lot down there."

"Just water. Your vagina cleans itself."

"Ok…" My sister said okay but that was not a point she was willing to concede.

The doctor went on to explain that putting anything down there, even soap, can possibly lead to infection.

We've known about our vaginas for some time. We even learned that the vagina is so miraculous it cleans itself. How beautiful! But while we were learning all of those fun facts, it necessarily didn't negate years and years of training and paranoia that our "jelly pum pum," and later our "fishy" could literally get to a point where it smelled like the latter.

The maternal side of my family is Jamaican and cleanliness is second only to God, particularly bodily hygiene.

The only way I can describe it, is that we were shamed and frightened into making sure our bodies, and specifically our vaginas, were clean. And that clean included soap. Now, was this the best way to teach hygiene? Shame and fear about your own body? Probably not. But I'm proud to say that the legacy of clean has been successfully passed down.

Now that I'm older, I understand that my vagina is so kind that it saves me quite a bit of time, doing a lot of the work herself. But the residue of shame and the irrational fear that my vagina will somehow end up smelling putrid, make it almost impossible for me to forgo the use of soap entirely.

I've been washing almost everything with soap for years and soap has never caused an infection. Partially because I don't put it inside my actual vagina. Just the vulva. And in the areas where I do apply soap, I make sure to rinse and then dry thoroughly.

Soap has been and will continue to be my friend.

But I am curious about how the other side lives.

Have any of you received similar advice from your gyno about abandoning the use of soap; and more importantly, if any of you have decided to make that lifestyle change, how is it working out for you?

Source:Madammenoire

DOWNLOAD BANGING INSTRUMENTAL: Kiss Daniel ~ Woju

This is the instrumental to the hit track from kiss
daniel, the song has been a street anthem and I know some of you bedroom and upcoming artistes might want to test your vocals on it , well here you go


The woju instrumental is mastered by Glonaija ..

EXPoSiTO!!My B00bs Are Too Big For My Cloth To Cover— Actress Yvonne Jegede

People always wondered why the loves exposing and flashing her boobs, in a recent interview she gave some raw response to a question concerning the matter

See excerpt below**

**You have a penchant for revealing some parts of your body, may be your boobs. Why?

"""Well, it depends on the clothes. I have big boobs, so, if the clothes are not big enough to cover my boobs you would not blame me for that. I am not the person who made my clothes. I just put the clothes on," she said.

The Truth Shall Set You Free ...2face Idibia comments on Viral Kissing Photos of Him and Pero

You are all aware of the alleged club pictures of 2face Idibia and his baby mama, Pero that went viral yesterday. It was alleged that 2face was caught kissing Pero at a club in Lagos when Annie busted them, and that the couple were at loggerheads over the issue.

Well, 2face has released a statement concerning the issue. He took to Instagram at around 1 am this morning to clear the polluted air on the whole saga. According to him, it was all ''orchestrated by some blog''.

He shared a photo of photo of himself and Annie walking down the aisle on their wedding day and

captioned it thus:


 "Our love does not have 2 make sense 2 u. pls go on with your perfect life and know the true story behind something before u judge and start making nasty comments based on an orchestrated story by some blog.U shall know the truth and the truth shall set u free. LYTID (Love you till I die) uwana idibia"

Bawse!! Pres. GEJ Visits Warri Billionaire Ayiri Emami (Photo)

Well while our post about Ayiri's brother exposing an olosho on instagram is still trending

The Warri billionaire Ayiri has proved that he is a proud PDP supporter, and pictured above is him with his party's presidential candidate, President Goodluck Jonathan at his home.


That's bawsing!

For Ladies: SomeEyeliner Tips and Tricks

Here,i offer up a few tips and tricks for the most prominent eye shapes.
Big Eyes
Usually big eyes are characterized by ones that protrude from the eye socket
similar to stars like Nicole Richie.
If your goal is to tame those peepers, always remember that "dark pushes back."
For example, smoky eyes or a very thick cat-eye can help give you the illusion of
the eyes moving inward a bit.

Monolids
If you feel like your lash line simply carries on to your brow bone or that you have
minimal eyelid space, you might find you have eyes similar to celebs like Lucy Liu. Your eyes have a minimal crease or lack of orbital bone(the bone above your eyeball).
Starting darker at the lash line and blending your liner upward across the entire
lid will give the eyelid definition. For a cat-eye, keep your line pretty close to the
eye along the lid and then go as Winehouse as you want, with a thick wing at the
end to give the eye some "lift."
At the bottom of the eye, either forgo liner or steer clear of your waterline so that
you're not enclosing the eye and making it look smaller.

Hooded Eyelids
If you have an extra layer of skin that seems to completely diminish your eyelid,
you have something in common with Jennifer Lawrence or even
Emma Stone.
These types of eyes are kind of related to the monolid in some ways.
Keeping liner tight to your lash line and saving the outer edges of eyes for the
ultimate liner lift are similar techniques that work well for both eye shapes.
Lining the upper waterline under the lash line can help to give you more liner
space without encroaching on lid real estate.
Get low! Open those eyes up by getting a little smudgy with your lower lids. Keep
the lines thicker toward the outer edges of the eye also.

Small or Close Set Eyes
It's time to open those bright eyes. A fun way to acheive this is with all-around
smoky liners that steer clear from the lower waterline. Instead of tight-lining the
lower lid with a dark liner, try a nude or white color in this space before defining
the lash line underneath.
Keep dark liner as far from the nose as possible to give the illusion that the eyes
are further away from the nose.

Wide Set Eyes
Kate Moss, Jessica Alba all have wide set eyes. They are said to be
the most beautiful based on the famous "golden ratio." Wide set eyes usually
have a whole eye's worth of space in between your eyes.
To "bring them together" you might want avoid that shimmery eyeshadow in the
tear duct trick to avoid emphasizing the amount of space. Whale-shape eyeliner
is where the thickest part of your liner is closer to the nose and might prove a
better choice to help close up some of that space.
start the lift between the iris and the end of the eye to give a
shortening effect.
Lets try these tips shall we?

Sam smith admits Taylor Swift as a role model

The Brit singer has already earned huge success
thanks to singles like "Stay With Me" and "I'm Not the Only One."
But as he prepares for his first Grammys as both a performer and nominee, the
22-year-old says he's just getting started.
"Taylor Swift is amazing...She's a role model," he said without hesitation. "I
really respect her. And she manages to sell a lot of records and make a lot of
people happy financially, but also to keep that soulfulness, that honesty."Funny how this is coming from smith who admitted some few weeks back that most pop-stars are not nice.

Caught up:Michelle Obama's Face While Meeting Saudi Arabian Royalty

It seemed like the First Lady wasn't very happy about having to cut her trip to
India short to accompany her presidential husband Barack Obama on a quick
stop to Saudi Arabia. The pair traveled to pay their respects for the recent death
of King Abdullah and met with his successor, King Salman.
Whether it was the fact that she didn't end up going to the Taj Mahal as planned,
or the fact that she had to act a certain way while on the trip, Michelle's face in
these photos are priceless and quite funny..

Olamide Launches 'King Baddoo' Clothing Line (photos)

I really love the Tees you all should try and get one , original and high quality stuff


The Durosoke crooner Olamide launched his Baddo wears yesterday the clothing line is to be distributed exclusively on leading online retail stores Konga and Jumia.

Woman Arrested For Having S3x With Daughter’s 16-Year BF (Photo)

               A southern California Resident has been arrested for allegedly having a sexual relationship with her teenage daughter's boyfriend.
               38-year-old Fereshta Angel Williams was arrested on Monday, January 5 at a fitness centre and has been charged with having sex with a minor, two counts of oral copulation of a minor and one count of lying to dissuade a witness.
               Before her arrest, Fereshta Angel Williams has been tracked for several weeks by police although it has not been revealed how they knew of the relationship.
Fereshta and the unnamed teen who was 16-years-old at that time had a sexual relationship for three months.

She has pleaded not guilty and would back in court on Tuesday, February 3.

So SAD!! Wizz True Life Story :'(

Hope your day is going great? Well A wizz one of the funniest guy I know sent me this mail decided to share it with you guys.lol




**for my department for work ....we be 7guys 3girls....and we hav da boss...na him be our supervisor;^L .......so avery day dis our supervisor I go dey hear wer him dey tell dem other senior staff say him don catch new fish...:s and dis him new girlfrnd na first class don of our workers girlfriend fine reach him girlfriend8-t well as a sharp guy I no send da supervisor....


so him cum arrange say him go carry da girl cum ...show us in 2weeks time:-[ so on dat faithful day=-J me go run small erran for bank......=-" my phone cum ring=)] na my guy 4work .call me tell me say mak I run cum bak..cus oga don carry dat him babe cum and she too fine ....so I cum *run* enter da lattest bike ..as I dey open da door of de office da next tin I cee>:O na bella...my girlfriend...were sit down for my oga lap|:O| wellllllll


*NOOOO* I dey vex now.........I need ur advice on wat to do ...cus me I look up lik say I no no her dat moment:'(

Oh No!!Cristiano Ronaldo facing potential TWELVE match ban for on-pitch Real Madrid outburst

This will not be good for the Star ,
The 2008, 2013 and 2014 FIFA Ballon d'Or winner was dismissed for kicking and punching defender Edimar during Saturday's La Liga clash

Ronaldo involved in a punch up on the pitch
Cristiano Ronaldo could be banned for as many as TWELVE games after being sent off after punching an opponent, reports in Spain suggest.

The World Player of the Year kicked and hit out at Cordoba defender Edimar and was shown a straight red card during Saturday's La Liga clash.

And Catalan newspaper Mundo Deportivo speculate the Portuguese could be booted out of the league for as many as twelve games if found guilty of excessive aggression when a disciplinary panel meet on Wednesday.

That said, such a severe sanction would be extremely surprising.


In fact, rival Madrid-based newspaper Marca say that referee Alejandro Hernandez didn't deem the incident to be violent conduct in his post-match report.


In said report Hernandez failed to reference Ronaldo's punch which appeared to land on Edimar's face, suggesting that he hadn't seen it.

His account of the events read: "In the 83rd minute Cristiano Ronaldo was sent off for the following reason: kicking an opponent when the ball was out of reach."

Should Ronaldo be banned for just the one match, he would only miss next weekend's home match against Real Sociedad.


 
However, were he to be banned for three or more games, he wouldn't be available for selection for the February showdowns with Sevilla or Atletico Madrid and more.

Following the clash, which Madrid won through a late Gareth Bale penalty, Ronaldo apologised for his uncharacteristic actions on Twitter.

He wrote: "I apologise to every and especially Edimar for my thoughtless act in the game today."


Source: Mirror Uk

Good Girl!! Linka Ikeji Deletes Post After Funke Akindele Legal Threat,yet To Apologize

Well in case you missed the initial gist ,

Funke's management condemned in strong terms a post by blogger, Linda Ikeji, ( pictured top left )

They claim the post ascribed a harmless picture on Funke's Instagram's page to be a mockery of her colleague, Toyin Aimakhu. And the post exposed Funke to cynical comments and hasty judgment.

It was also claimed that her brand was not only portrayed in bad light, but it has promoted unhealthy rivalry where there is none. After the news about Toyin broke on Saturday, Funke posted the picture above left on Instagram with the caption:"Yes, You!" .

She later deleted it. Funke, through her lawyers has written a letter to Linda demanding a retraction and apology within 24 hours or face action within the ambit of law.

But she is still yet to apologize, will flex her muscles and face the law , or she will tender a public apology before the end of the day , well we will update you on that


Enekem.com :D